Sacred Intimacy.
What does the subject mean to you? How are you translating this into? During my works trips I have met other sacred intimates, through listening to the way they describe it, I have learned that what I have been doing for the past twenty years, has lead me to be considered one.
While most people assume sacred intimacy is sexual, that is not always the case. During a sacred intimacy session, you will learn to communicate what it is you want to work on. Is it your hang ups in bed? is it your resistance to let’s say explore anal massage and the pleasure this area has to offer once you go over that shame associated with the feminine in you? Or is it simply cuddling and feeling the closeness of another human being? Feeling vulnerable to be intimate, to bond, verbally without judgement, somatically with your healer.
You see, most people’s relationships, not necessarily love related, deteriorate over time because they haven’t learned to communicate their dislikes. When you have a difference with someone you appreciate, understand that is part of discovering each other and during such a phase you are to start learning from each other on a deeper level, their shadow, and in their shadow you’ll also meet their imperfections which are part of that person. And you are no exception because no one is perfect. If a person you enjoy speeding time with says something you don’t agree with, learn to agree to disagree, learn to not leaving the room with the wrong translation developed in your head, ask what that person meant to avoid the pitfall of getting lost in translation.
This approach when used properly as a tool, allows the client to work with someone on personal blockages that keep them caged from exploring what is beyond that container, that fence. It takes the person to step into the gray area, where inhibitions, resistance, holding back, belief system and programing are paused, try new things on case by case, and as the work progresses is to help the receiver find their own enlightenment. There is no perfect formula to reach enlightenment, because in order to arrive to that finish line, you, the explorer must do your part to achieve that goal by inviting your healer into your life so you dive together into what comes up, so that you have a breakthrough, an over due tantrum perhaps, release the valve on your pent-up emotions, so when you come out of it, you come out with new data about your programing and use those new tools to better your present, perhaps your future. That is enlightenment, doing the work, your part as a team player with your healer so you can benefit from the results you will obtain.
Healers also learn from these exploratory experiences, because as we help you heal, we also heal areas about ourselves through healing you. One of my most satisfactory moments is when the person find out new erogenous areas they were clueless they were there! Realizing they were not aware, sometimes ignored certain areas because go hang ups, makes them vulnerable realizing they’ve been missing out all this playground for as long as they have lived. That’s when my whimsical sense of humor kicks in and I tell them they can name this new care after me, “The Izzy playground” as ling as I get royalties.
Be respectul, generous and kind towards your healer, because what we offer goes beyond a quick transactional fix.
